Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family, today and everyday!
So whether you are preparing for an in-person or virtual family gathering, remember it’s a time to be grateful for family and friends, not stressed and overwhelmed by all the details. Although, we’re only two days away, let’s take a few moments to answer the three most important questions:
- What is the menu?
- Who’s coming to dinner?
- Who’s cooking what? (if applicable)
We want to minimize the frustration level, especially for the hosts/cook(s), our family, friends and guests. Our key objectives are to have plenty of time set aside for our prayer of thanksgiving and to have dinner prepared on schedule. Below are a few suggestions to fine tune our preparation time and maximize our time to enjoy each others’ company.
Keep it Simple!
1. Stage your kitchen counter by having all your ingredients readily available. So, how many trips to the store do you make before dinner last year?
2. Confirm the food items that others are bringing and have extra dishes prepared, just in case.
3. Check the guest list and prepare for the unexpected. Make more food than needed, instead of less. If your gathering is virtual, you may want to have your guests to test the videoconferencing platform ahead of time.
4. Prepare to have dinner ready on time, or at least earlier, than later.
Now take a little breather before the guests arrive or the virtual dinner begins. Then be ready to greet your family, friends and special quests.
Give Thanks for His Goodness & Eat your Glorious Dinner!
Get Ready for Dessert and Coffee & ENJOY YOUR DAY!
Stay Safe and Healthy!
COVID Guidelines for the Holidays
The Holidays are a Time for Family! However, unfortunately, these times may also be hectic & stressful! Take a moment or two to de-clutter the mind and put a little Order in your space… and make this a time of rest, relaxation and reflection!
The Fall season has FALLEN and there are less than two (2) months left in the year! BUT DON’T PANIC! Believe or not, you still have time to prepare, plan and minimize some of the stress that may be associated with the hustle and bustle of the Holidays.
Let’s just look at a few thought starters….
- Start NOW! – Although it appears that you have a while yet…. you really DON’T. Start planning now! Get out the pencil and paper and jot down 2-3 “Must Do’s. Maybe it’s clean the pantry, prepare the menu for Thanksgiving dinner or simply pull out the decorations to get you in the mood.
- Establish a few LOOSE guidelines, objectives and timelines. Remember this is NOT to make the preparation more stressful, so keep it loose, i.e. “I want to have my menu and grocery list finalized at least 2 weeks prior to Thanksgiving”. Put the date reminder on your calendar.
- Put a few items in the plan for Christmas Prep also. Maybe you want to get the spare rooms ready. Change the linen, make room in the closets, if necessary or set the guest towels aside.
- Give the kids the sale papers! Let them start to prepare their wish list, so that they have the incentive to go through their old toys early (old clothes too, Moms) and donate to someone less privileged.
As I say often, set aside 20 minutes per task ONLY.
- Identify the task
- Set the timer
- Do as much of the task as you can
- When the timer goes off, Stop! and go on to something else
- DON’T TRY TO EAT THE ELEPHANT!
Try to Pace Yourself, Starting Now!
Don’t wait or you will be caught in the Holiday Whirlwind before you know it!
Are You Ready !
Please let us know if this helps!
Yesterday was an Official day to give THANKS to GOD for ALL things and to Celebrate Family! I am sure that we all agree that we MUST give thanks to God EVERY day…. We celebrated with our immediate family (minus son) and a friend this year. There was an atmosphere of Love and laughter, Peacefulness and calm. However, I do remember in years past, when we would Thank God, just to get through the day without something or someone igniting the pressure that was already in the room. (Of course, I am the only one that have had holidays like that. NOT! :-))
As we leave Thanksgiving Day and enter Black Friday, we are reminded….
So What are You doing Today? For some, today is called BLACK FRIDAY! (ominous sounding, don’t you think?) … for some, it even started yesterday, after dinner! REALLY? REALLY!! … A Mad Dash to the Mall for shopping and savings (?). In the past few years, it has actually become dangerous to be amongst the masses and masses of people trying to occupy the same space, at the same time, to buy the exact same items. Are you out there right now? Don’t get me wrong, I have always tried to avoid Black Friday like the plague, but I have spent many a day in Toys R’ Us, as well as other stores of all kinds … and WAAYYY after my kids discovered that there was no S______ C______, we had to have a REAL tree and make sure that it was filled to the brim! But about 4-5 years ago, we had a revelation….
Today, we are home enjoying our day off (unfortunately my hubby had to work), but we will not be in the hustle and bustle at all this year. We realized that we were constantly STRESSED about getting the right gift, about getting enough gifts (the girls HAD to have the same number of boxes to open and either way, we were gonna spend more money than we had!!!!! I know that it may be tough to break the tradition of the holidays, especially if you have small children. But we no longer have the BIG, REAL tree, now we have a small artificial tree that we put up in the dining room. For the two years prior, we didn’t exchange gifts, but last year we decided to get each other one gift. We plan a big family dinner with all the trimmings. We play games and watch movies.
At home, at work or shopping on Black Friday? Please don’t lose sight of the true purpose of the holidays. Are you stressed, tired, irritable, tired, stressed, frustrated, irritable, etc. etc. Remember, this is the time of year that you should reflect on how far you have come over the years. Be grateful for the LIFE that you have been given, although there have been a LOT of ups and downs … and appreciate family. Someone told me one day, that you can choose your friends, but you can’t choose your family. (My son text’d me, “Happy Thanksgiving, I Love You!” …. hmmmmmm????) God, is that you?
So What are You doing Today?
- Black Friday remains biggest shopping day (azstarnet.com)
- Black Friday Shopping Frenzy Gets Underway…On Thursday (newyork.cbslocal.com)
- May the preparations begin. (amylwestdavidson.wordpress.com)
- My Black Friday Prayer (wejustlookup.wordpress.com)
- For many, Thanksgiving was a day for sho (dcbsnews.wordpress.com)
- Today I had a choice. (justalumpofclay.wordpress.com)